Back in February, Sarah Minkiewicz-Breunig wrote a beautiful remembrance about a stall latch she bought when she was a young horseless girl. Although she had no real need for a latch, it represented the hope that she would someday have a stall and a pony to put in it.
That got me thinking about my own days as a young horseless girl. I started riding lessons when I was ten, and my instructor told me I needed a helmet. My parents took me to a tack shop in Burbank. We went right to the apparel section, where I spent a miserable half hour trying on helmets. Nothing fit, the salesperson was frustrated, my parents were impatient, and I ended up with a velvet hunt cap with an elastic chin strap that gave me a pounding headache and a red mark on my forehead every time I wore it.
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Before we left, I asked if I could walk around the store and look at the actual tack. In my mom's words, I wanted to touch every single thing in the store.
FYI, I'm still like that.But anyway, I knew I didn't have a lot of time so I didn't linger at the saddles or bridles or any of the other enticing bits of leather whose purpose I could only guess at. Instead, I headed to the grooming supplies, where I found an inexpensive pot metal hoofpick. I asked my dad if I could get that, in addition to the helmet.
"Why do you need it?" he asked. "Don't they have them at the stable?"
Well, of course they did, but that wasn't the point. The hoofpick was like Sarah's latch. It represented hope and possibilities. When my horse finally came, I wanted to be ready.
The hoofpick was eventually joined by a brush, a curry comb, a grooming tote, a halter and a leadrope. Then a saddle, a bridle, a bareback pad, another bridle, a handful of bits, half a running martingale, too many saddle pads to count, more brushes, more halters, more leadropes, another saddle, another bareback pad and then - some forty two years after the hoofpick - I finally got the pony. Phew.
Of course, by then that old pot metal hoofpick had been replaced several times over. I assumed it was long gone, and stated as much on Sarah's post.
But then, a spring cleaning miracle! After our last year's basement flood, I took a bucket of old, slightly damp horse equipment to the barn and promptly forgot about it. I uncovered it yesterday in the deepest, darkest corner of my tack room. Wonder of wonders, my hoofpick was inside!
I have better hoofpicks, so instead of putting it in my grooming tote, I hung it right next to the door, so I can see it every day. It reminds me of hope and possibilities and how lucky I am to have a pony of my own.
That’s a fantastic post!!!! I don’t have a horse (yet) but I have a bag full of brushes and two saddle pads. ;)
ReplyDeleteI was given box of broken old bridles to clean as part of my volunteer work. I asked if I could keep one of them as in exchange of fixing the more damaged ones.
ReplyDeleteIt’s a lovely bridle and some day I shall have a have a pony to wear it.
As usual, every bit of this resonates with me and I love it.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was a kid all I wanted was my own pony/horse, and when it became apparent that wasn’t going to happen I longed for my own saddle. That didn’t happen, either. Of course I was grateful (and still am grateful) that I was able to ride at all, but the lack of a saddle and having to always borrow my trainer’s daughter’s absolutely rankled. There were plenty of hand-me-down clothes along the way, too. I was overjoyed when my mom and I managed to find the only new pair of non-custom tall boots on Planet Earth that mostly fit me - nobody was ever prouder of tall boots, that’s for sure! They were MINE and to me signified that yes, I was a REAL rider. (Note that they’re still in my closet and still fit, just are horribly out of style)
I wound up buying my first saddle after college when I wasn’t even riding. I got it for an absolute steal from a 4-H kid - even so I couldn’t really afford it, but I simply had to have it. To me it meant that some day it and I would both be back on a horse. For years it was nothing more than living-room decor… and then I did go back to riding. Currently it’s in the same closet with the boots. I really should sell it (if anyone would want a ca. 1982 rock-hard PDN) but it’s worth more to me as a symbol of promise. Just like your hoofpick!
Nowadays I cherish each and every piece of tack and equipment I own. Nothing makes me happier than shopping for “my” horse, even if he is only a half-lease. I adore getting to walk into the boarder tack room and choose which of my two (!) saddles I’ll be using, or dig around in my own trunk for a different pair of horse boots or a new bottle of coat conditioner. The mere fact that I have a reason to go to the feed store for horse treats and fly spray makes me happy, too.
I think when it all comes later we value it even more… ☺️
Had to look up PDN after that. Prix des Nations, thank you Google. // I still have 'bits in the basement' that by now are around 50 years old. What a lovely way to honor the hoofpick.
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